Thursday, May 3, 2012

Jude's Influence


   I was watching and playing with my baby, Milo, last night and couldn’t help but notice some of the habits he has picked up. I think for the first time I thought about what our ferrets teach each other. It gave me a smile. Jude, a sweet possum faced boy recently who recently passed away, was Milos mentor. When Milo first came, Jude disciplined him and taught him to behave. Jude did a very good job. Whenever Milo played too rough with an older ferret or smaller ferret, Jude jumped in and set him straight. He taught him the rules and order of the business. I noticed some other things Jude taught him, more on the personal trait side of things. Jude was a flipflop thief. All flipflops belonged to Jude and in Jude’s stash. He gathered them daily from the mud room and took them to a drawer in the kitchen. He lugged them to the back of the drawer and then up and over so they were behind it. I had noticed that Milo would on occasion go on these round ups with him. Milo would help him with the particular heavy ones that I often wore when doing the gardening. The two would work it through the kitty door (that went out to the mud room) with such coordination that it amazed me. They used the same teamwork to get it into and behind the drawer. I guess it was fun for Milo to be on the hunting spree with Jude, because after Jude passed the flipflop snatching stopped. That is until a week ago. Milo has set up his own stashing spot. To my joy it is much easier to get to….. Its under the dining table.
   Jude also had this habit of grabbing onto the twist crocks and trying to shake or pull them off. He always made such a racket doing this. Im not sure what his obsession was with those things. I was in the hallway putting away some towels in the linen closet and I suddenly heard this noise…so familiar...and so loud. Without thinking I walked into the ferret room to tell Jude to stop it and there was Milo….trying to shake the twist crock off its base. My eyes welled up.
   Milo was with Jude for about 5 months. In that time they were good buddies. Milo often slept with Jude and comforted him in his final days. It makes me happy to know Jude passed along a piece of himself….